A dream of kissing will either make you feel loved or disgusted depending on who you kissed or got kissed by!
Seeing your partner or friend giving you a kiss will certainly make you feel good. And a dream about your crush kissing you will put you on cloud nine. Does it portend a relationship with him or her?
However, would you feel the same if an ugly monster tried to kiss you? We bet not!!! Instead, you would start to wonder about the meaning of the dream.
Whether you would get an unpleasant-looking person for a husband or a wife or anything like that!
Whether your guess is right or if such scenarios signify something completely different will be unfolded in the latter sections. So, hop on! You might even get surprised by some of the symbolism.
What Does It Mean When You Dream About Kissing Someone?
Usually, a dream about kissing someone or getting kissed by another individual signifies positivity, love, respect, admiration, and contentment in your waking world. That being said, there are several dreams revolving around kissing that foretells betrayal.
Generally, kissing someone or someone doing the same to you in a dream stands for love, harmony, affection, and contentment in your waking life.
But according to the types of kisses, the person you kissed, and where you kissed him or her, the interpretation varies. While some portend positivity, others may stand for something extremely unpleasant.
Such dreams are also related to your real-life relationships and how you communicate with people. On the other hand, a few plots reflect how you are keeping secrets about yourself or other people.
Kissing Dream Meaning: Dream Symbols
1. Happiness and Contentment
Though not all dreams associated with kissing symbolize positivity, many of them reflect peace, harmony, and contentment.
2. Feelings Of Closeness And Intimacy
In reality, we share kisses with people we are close with. Never do we go up to a stranger and kiss him or her. Therefore, kissing dreams could stand for feelings of closeness and the development of an intimate relationship between you and another person.
3. Hidden Desires And Passion
According to Ernest Hartmann, a dream researcher, the central image of any dream is directly related to an emotion, which may be either positive or negative. In this case, dreaming about kissing someone may stand for the romantic feelings you have for someone.
As per the theories of Sigmund Freud who believes dreams reflect the dreamer’s repressed desires, a kiss in a dream plot could stand for the hidden emotions the dreamer feels for someone in his or her waking life.
4. Deceit And Betrayal
In the Holy Bible, the act of kissing is often associated with betrayal. Therefore, depending on the details as well as taking into account your real-life circumstances, a scenario about kissing may symbolize betrayal from someone you trust.
5. Breaking Boundaries
Often in real life, a kiss is a breakthrough in a relationship. Suppose you share quite a formal relationship with a colleague. That relationship will never be the same once you kiss him or her.
On that note, dreams associated with kissing are also related to breaking barriers in the waking world.
6. You have fallen for someone you really shouldn’t
The difference between reality and the dream world is rationality. Most of the time, we weigh the pros and cons before doing anything in the waking world. Despite our fantasies and desires, we refrain from committing an act if we believe it to be wrong.
On the contrary, anything can happen in the dream world. Literally, anything and everything is possible.
In that regard, kissing someone, especially another person’s partner may mean you secretly love or feel attracted to that person. While you do not let your feelings and emotions come to the surface in the real world, your desires are projected in the dream world, the realm where anything can happen.
7. You are being secretive
Some dream scenarios associated with kisses are a sign that you are keeping something away from others. The reason may be anything under the sun. Perhaps you have done something you know is morally or ethically wrong or it may be because you feel embarrassed about it.
Dream Of Kissing: 67 Different Scenarios And Their Meanings
1. Kissing yourself in a dream
If you dream about kissing yourself, it means you have accepted yourself for who you are. You have started to look at situations from the brighter side and have decided to own your flaws and embrace them.
2. A dream about your first kiss
Dreams about your first kiss show that you anticipate your life’s first kiss. At other times, it may denote love is in the air and a romantic relationship is in the making. Nonetheless, it could even be a sign that your life lacks love and romance.
3. Dreaming that you were kissed
Sometimes, you will dream about yourself getting a kiss from someone. If the plot does not include any specific details such as where exactly you were kissed and who kissed you, the dream means well.
Such types of generic dreams reflect that you are loved and appreciated for who you are.
4. Dreaming about someone trying to kiss you against your will
The scenario has two different interpretations. The first shows how someone in your circle has tried to shove their ideas and opinions onto you. Could it be that he or she is compelling you to do something or go by his ideas though you have no wish to?
On another note, that ‘kiss’ may symbolize a behavior or personality trait about yourself that you have kept hidden. Since you showed your resistance in the plot, it means you are not yet prepared to come to terms with that particular trait or behavior.
5. Someone kissing you on the back in a dream
This is probably a warning. If you dream about the plot, it may stand for the possibility of someone dragging you into a scandal or fraudulent activity.
6. Dreaming that you were about to kiss someone
Sometimes, you will get transported and pushed back to reality just as you were about to kiss someone in your dream. Often such a scenario means you yearn to get into a relationship with someone in your real life.
But unsure about how they will reciprocate, you might have been reluctant to confess your feelings.
7. Dreaming of kissing someone
Dreams about kisses or kissing do not always have to do with people, relationships, and romance. It may also symbolize an idea or an upcoming event.
Kissing someone in a dream vision may happen if you are supportive of an idea or an event.
For instance, say your brother and his fiance want to hold a huge wedding ceremony, an idea that your parents are against. And around this time, if you dream of kissing your brother or his fiance or both, the plot may signify that you support their idea.
After all, a wedding is a once in a lifetime happening!
8. A dream about getting caught while kissing someone
To dream about getting caught red-handed means you will be stabbed by a person you trust a lot. That individual could be someone who cares for you but acted against you due to some selfish interests.
On the other hand, it may even stand for a fake friend who approaches you with an ulterior motive to hurt you.
9. Kissing your father in a dream
The dream vision symbolizes success and prosperity.
10. A dream about kissing your mother
If you dream of yourself kissing your mother, it means your professional life will do very well going forward. Because of your success and achievements, you will likely earn the respect and admiration of others around you.
11. Kissing your sibling in a dream
Here, the scenario foretells good times ahead. Furthermore, the dream shows you would benefit a lot from your relationships.
12. Dreaming about kissing a close friend
Kissing a close friend in a dream is likely to happen if you wish to be closer to him or her than you are already in the waking world. Perhaps you want to connect with that person romantically!
13. A dream about kissing a friend
To dream of the above plot could be your subconscious mind encouraging you to consider a reconciliation with someone you got distant from. Probably the reason for the separation might have been a silly matter.
Think about the people in your life. Are you still in touch with all of them or have you part ways with some – childhood friends, perhaps. How was your relationship earlier and how is it now? Do you rarely or never talk to each other presently?
In case you have any such people, your subconscious may be encouraging you to reach out to them and not let your ego get in between.
14. Kissing a friend goodbye in a dream
Here, your friend symbolizes your familiar zone. The scenario indicates you are leaving your comfort zone to explore more challenging areas of life. Additionally, you must try to recall the emotions you felt in the dream.
If you were emotionally unstable and felt small kissing your friend goodbye, it means you still lack confidence about stepping into the unknown zone.
On the flip side, if you did not experience any emotions as such in the dream it shows that you are not bothered about the obstacles and challenges that you will possibly encounter as you walk on the new path.
15. Dreaming about kissing your partner
Regardless of age and gender, a dream wherein you kissed your partner or vice versa reflects domestic peace and harmony.
16. Kissing your real-life partner in a dream
While some dream experts relate the scene to a lack of love and romance in your relationship, others believe it symbolizes the love, harmony, and respect you have for each other.
16. Kissing your partner who is of the same gender in a dream
Such types of dream plots do not reflect homosexuality or same-sex relationship. Instead, the dream indicates you seek comfort in your everyday life.
For example, say you feel stressed and burned out from your work every single day. Consequently, you might have started looking for ways that would give you a stress-free life. At that point, a dream about kissing your partner who is of the same gender as you is most likely.
17. Dreaming about kissing your partner in a public place
If you dream about kissing your partner in a public place, it means you are too open when it comes to your emotions. Whether it is love or hate, you usually do not hold in and show whatever emotions you feel for a person.
18. A dream about kissing your partner in bright light
If you kiss your boyfriend or girlfriend or spouse in bright light, it is a good dream and shows that your partner is a decent person with equal respect for both men and women.
19. Kissing your partner in a dark place in a dream
The darkness in the dream maybe your subconscious trying to bring your attention to your partner’s behaviors and activities. Possibly, he or she has indulged in something you wouldn’t appreciate or approve of.
It need not be something bad, though it might be. The point is you wouldn’t be happy and wouldn’t be able to encourage him or her.
20. Seeing your partner kiss someone else in a dream
The plot may stand for infidelity and deceit. But before you go to your partner and accuse him or her of cheating note that the dream could be a reflection of something that happened years or even a decade ago.
Also just because you dream of your partner kissing someone else other than you does not necessarily signify an affair between your partner and someone else.
Your partner in the vision may even represent you.
21. Dreaming of kissing your ex
If you see yourself kissing your former lover in a dream, then it’s high time you walk away from something – a relationship, a job that drains you, a family that discourages you every time… You know your life better!
Such a scenario may also happen if you are reminiscing about the good times you spent together with that person.
22. A dream about kissing someone else’s partner
Despite the negativity associated with the plot, the dream is a sign that you would be successful in whatever you try your luck on around this time. Be it a career, job, or even love and relationships, the universe has your back and you must make the most of it.
On the other hand, your dream could be foretelling a trip you’ll likely undertake with your partner soon. Don’t think twice about it if you want to nurture your relationship.
Having said that kissing someone else’s partner in a dream also denotes that you longed to be in a relationship and feel loved again. Perhaps you are secretly envious of the relationships your friends share with their partners.
The plot may also reflect the inappropriate and indecent thoughts you harbor in reality.
23. Kissing your boss in a dream
The dream indicates you will prosper in your professional life.
24. Dreaming about kissing someone you like in reality
This particular vision might be the one you have been waiting for! A dream about kissing a person you really like could be a premonition of a relationship between the two of you.
Such a plot is also associated with your goals. Chances are, you are literally just a step away from success. So, even if you feel like giving up and abandoning all of your hard work, your subconscious encourages you to keep pushing. Just a little more because you are almost there!
25. Dreaming about kissing someone you dislike in reality
If a dream about kissing someone symbolizes a potential relationship with that person, what could a dream about kissing someone you hate mean?
Is it also related to a relationship with that person?
To dream about a kiss with someone you dislike or hate in reality usually means someone or a particular situation is compelling you to do something you hate.
26. Resisting the kiss of someone you hate in the waking world
Following the above interpretation, if you dream about someone you hate trying to kiss you and you pushing that person away or resisting in any manner, it means you are refusing to do the things someone is forcing you to do.
Perhaps you are refusing to comply with the ideas your business partner is forcing you to consider.
27. A dream about kissing an opponent
Based on the scenario, you will reconnect with a long-lost friend.
28. Kissing an enemy in a dream
Dream plots regarding kisses with the enemy portend deceit, betrayal, and reconciliation with long-lost friends in some instances.
Positively, a dream about kissing a rival may mean you will come to a negotiation and resolve the issues between the two of you.
29. Kissing a stranger in a dream
A generic dream plot about giving a kiss to a stranger is a warning against short-term relationships. Most likely, they will bring nothing to your life but trouble and more trouble.
In some instances, the stranger could stand for parts of you that you have kept concealed or denied all this time. Now, dreaming about kissing the stranger ( or yourself) may mean you have made peace and have even decided to embrace those traits you have kept away for a long time.
30. Dreaming about kissing a stranger on the cheek
The above scenario is closely associated with respect. Either you will earn the regard of others or you will start looking up to someone owing to an incident.
31. A dream about kissing an ugly stranger
The spectacle stands for disappointment in love.
32. Kissing a female stranger in a dream
The plot reflects your corrupted and immoral nature. Possibly, you have no regard for your own values as well as others’. And the dream is a harbinger of yourself getting involved in base activities.
33. A dream about kissing a celebrity
Broadly speaking, kissing a celebrity or a famous person in a dream shows how you aspire to become successful someday. If you want to dig into the details of the scenario, try to recall who that celebrity in your dream is.
What is he or she famous for?
What does that particular individual remind you of?
Also, think of the qualities he or she possesses that you look up to.
For example, let’s say you saw J.K. Rowling in your dream. A few possibilities are that you aspire to be a great writer like her someday.
Be that as it may, the scenario may just be a reflection of your fantasies. For instance, let’s say you have a crush on Justin Beiber. But neither do his story inspire you nor do you like his songs. Perhaps you just think he looks gorgeous and wishes to have a boyfriend who looks like him.
Then, the scenario is merely a reflection of your desire to have a Beiber-like boyfriend.
34. Dreaming of a celebrity kissing you
In a broad sense, dreaming about a celebrity kissing you shows that you desire to learn a skill you associate him or her with.
On the other hand, such a scenario may mean you have a crush on or are presently wooing a person who is not a good match for you.
Yet another interpretation is that you want to be noticed, recognized, and appreciated for your potential, hard work, and talent.
35. A dream of getting kissed by a celebrity you like
In most cases, the dream is related to wish fulfillment. This applies only if he or she is someone you admire and look up to.
36. Getting kissed by a celebrity you hate
On the contrary, if a famous person you don’t like kisses you in your dream, it might be due to one of their recent scandals. Perhaps you experienced something similar in the past.
37. Kissing a foreigner in a dream
A dream about kissing a foreigner is an auspicious symbol. It means you will overcome all odds, defeat your competitors and be victorious in whatever you are working on.
38. Dreaming about kissing a pastor
Generally, pastors are looked up to with reverence in society. Therefore, a dream about kissing a pastor may mean you want others to respect and look up to you.
39. A dream about a pastor kissing you
In your dream, if a pastor kisses you, it probably means you have kept something about you repressed and hidden.
Maybe your pathetic childhood or a terrible encounter with someone that almost took your life.
40. Kissing a strange man in a dream
Usually, the scenario is associated with love and relationships. According to the dream, your immediate future will not be very kind to you in terms of love and romance.
But that doesn’t mean you are not worthy of love. Pretty soon, your time will come to be loved.
41. Dreaming about kissing a strange woman
In this case, the kissing experience with the woman symbolizes happiness, prosperity, and good health.
42. A dream about kissing a crazy person
The dream plot signifies foolish decisions you made in the past.
43. Kissing a girl in a dream
A dream about kissing a girl may stand for positive and negative depending on the physical appearance of the girl.
If she looks attractive, you will possibly encounter trying times in the foreseeable future. On the flip side, if she looks ugly, the scenario portends happiness.
44. Dreaming about kissing a girl you like in the real world
A dream plot about kissing a girl you like signifies either you or a close one falling ill soon. Fortunately, it won’t lead to anything serious or life-threatening.
45. Kissing a child or children in a dream
A scenario about kissing a child or children in a dream is a harbinger of happy days together with friends and family in the foreseeable future.
46. Dreaming about kissing your child
To dream about kissing your child may mean he or she needs you or your assistance in some way.
47. A dream about kissing a sick person
To dream about kissing a sick person signifies you will get disappointed with regards to your romantic life.
48. Dreaming about other people kissing
Here, the scenario shows how you are unnecessarily getting involved in other personal lives and matters.
The scenario of seeing, witnessing, or encountering other people kissing in a dream could also be related to your life. Such a scenario shows that several aspects of your life are working together to achieve something.
For example, say your partner falls sick and is unable to help you around in the house. Then, during this time, maybe you will shorten your working hours to help in the kitchen and with the kids.
49. Seeing a couple kissing each other in a dream
It is an ill omen to dream of a couple kissing. In all likelihood, you will come across several obstacles in the near future that will have huge negative impacts on your personal as well as professional lives.
50. Seeing children kissing one another in a dream
The scenario foretells pleasant events and happy days in your family and friend circle.
51. Kissing an animal in a dream
To dream of kissing an animal symbolizes peace and prosperity.
Kissing Dream Meaning: Different Places
52. Dreaming about a kiss on the forehead
Kisses on the forehead in the dream world symbolize peace and harmony in the dreamer’s life.
On the other hand, kissing someone on the forehead shows how you are displeased with someone’s actions and behavior.
53. Someone kissing you on the forehead in a dream
Possibly you have done something that displeases someone in your circle.
54. Kissing someone on the cheek in a dream/ someone kissing your cheeks in a dream
The scenario reflects the respect, love, adoration, and affection you have for a person in your life. Alternatively, it may mean someone feels the same towards you if someone kissed you on your cheeks in a dream.
55. A dream about kissing someone on the neck/ Someone kissing you on your neck in a dream
In the first instance, the dream is a projection of the uninhibited passion and desire to indulge in physical intimacy with someone in your waking life.
In the second instance, it shows how somebody harbors carnal desires for you.
56. Dreaming of kissing someone on the lips/ Someone kissing you on the lips in a dream
Often such scenarios are closely connected with passion and desire. There’s a strong possibility that you will get into an intimate or sensual relationship with someone in the near future.
But whether the relationship in question would end up as a serious affair or just a temporary fling is questionable.
In the ancient days, a kiss on the lips was considered to be spiritual and sacred. Therefore, looking at the scenario from that perspective, your dream might have something to do with your spirituality.
Recall how you felt during the kiss. If you were disgusted, it may be a sign that an evil spirit is trying to connect with your soul. On the other hand, a pleasant kissing encounter means good spirits and spiritual entities favoring you.
57. Dreaming about kissing someone on the hand/ Someone kissing your hand in a dream
If you dream about kissing someone’s hand, it means you revere and admires the other person who appeared in your dream. Remember, dreams are subjective. Therefore, that person could also symbolize any other individual in your life.
Similarly, somebody kissing you on your hands shows that someone has a deep and sincere regard for you.
58. A dream about kissing someone’s foot
In some instances, you may even get dream scenarios of kissing someone’s foot. Such plots reflect the regard you have for that person. Undeniably, you look up to that person and wish to follow his or her steps.
Negatively, seeing yourself kiss someone’s foot in a dream may mean you are getting mistreated by someone in your waking life.
59. A dream about kissing someone’s leg
Kissing someone’s leg in a dream may also be a reflection of your humbleness.
60. Kissing in the dark in a dream
It is an ill omen if you dream about kissing in the dark.
61. Dreaming about kissing someone or something sensually
If you see yourself kissing someone sensually in a dream, the scenario symbolizes repressed or unfulfilled desire.
Kissing Dream Meaning: Different Types Of Kisses
62. Giving or receiving a bloody kiss in a dream
Dreaming about a bloody kiss signifies your deep passion. According to the plot, you give your all and commit wholeheartedly to whatever you feel passionate about – be it a person, hobby, or even a thing.
63. Dreaming about giving someone a french kiss
French kissing a person in a dream means you need to be transparent and honest about your emotions.
For instance, you might have denied your feelings for your best friend when, in truth, you cannot live without him or her.
In that case, your subconscious encourages you to come clean. If you love someone, let them know. Similarly, if you hate a person, let him or her know that you want to keep him or her at a distance.
Kissing Dream Meaning: Different Dreamers
64. A dream about kissing someone of the same gender
Regardless of your gender, if you dream about kissing a person of the same sex, it means you have finally accepted yourself for who you really are. Chances are, you are a heterosexual and the dream indicates you have made peace with your sexuality.
65. A female dreaming about kissing a girl
A female dreaming about kissing a girl indicates you need to get in touch with and nurture your feminine traits.
Negatively, a female kissing another female in a dream plot indicates you are compelled to do something forbidden.
Kissing Dreams And Your Emotions
66. Dreaming about enjoying a kiss
To dream about feeling good when you kiss someone or someone kisses you is a positive sign. Regardless of your present situation, the scenarios encourage you to keep on working for what you have always done.
Based on the plot, you will eventually achieve what you are currently seeking.
From another perspective, such scenarios also indicate you have a stable life.
67. Dreaming about having an unpleasant experience with a kiss
The scenario shows how you need to conceal several aspects or behavior traits about yourself.
Dreaming about kissing and hating the experience in a dream also symbolizes your anxieties and stressful life. On another note, if you felt negative emotions in the dream, it could mean someone has disregarded the boundary you have drawn in a relationship.
Spiritual Meaning Of Kissing In A Dream
A kiss in general was considered sacred in some cultures during ancient times. Therefore, such dreams from the spiritual perspective may symbolize happiness, harmony, and blessings.
Biblical Meaning Of A Kiss In A Dream
“The one I kiss is the man; arrest him.”
Going to Jesus, Judas said, “Greetings, Rabbi!” and kissed him. ~ Matthew 26:48-49
In another case,
Joab said to Amasa, “How are you, my brother?” After which, Joab took Amasa by the beard with his right hand and kissed him. Amasa was not on his guard against the dagger in Joab’s hand, and Joab plunged it into his belly, and his intestines spilled out on the ground. Without being stabbed again, Amasa died. ~ 2 Samuel 20:9-10
In the above two instances, the act of kissing was used in a negative connotation. The first was when Judas kissed Jesus on the cheeks before the night of crucifixion. In the latter case, Joab, the commander, used a kiss as a friendly act to stab his rival Amasa.
From the above instances, a dream about kissing may be a symbolism of a betrayal or a fake friend who approaches you just to hurt you.
However, kissing dreams may also symbolize passion from the Biblical point of view.
“Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth, for your love is more delightful than wine” ~ Song of Solomon 1:2
Kissing Dream Meaning: Different Examples
We have included some examples of kiss dreams experienced by dreamers. Analyze how they are interpreted and what are the elements considered while decoding the scenario. Unquestionably, these will give me a hint as to how you must proceed with your interpretation.
1. A woman dreamt of kissing her husband who had passed away in reality.
In waking life, her husband had died while trying to save her from a bullet shot. After he passed away the woman was grief-stricken and was not herself for a long time.
When she finally recovered from the grief, she couldn’t help but appreciate what her husband had done for her. Her love, appreciation, and reverence for her husband grew more intense as a result of his selfless act.
2. In a dream, a man dreamt about kissing a woman. Then, realized it was wrong of him to do that.
In reality, he was about to get married but was doubting his commitments. He wasn’t sure if he would be able to stay committed to his life for the rest of his life. In this case, the scenario of the man kissing the woman symbolizes his affairs and encounters with several women.
Possible Reasons Why You Dream About Kissing
Some of the reasons why you dream of kissing are –
- You are about to achieve success in some aspects of your life.
- Kissing dreams could mean you are moving away from your familiar zone to explore the unfamiliar.
- You want to be loved and possibly get into a relationship with someone.
- You need to make changes in how you communicate or interact with others.
- Some Kissing dreams also foretell the development of a romantic relationship.
- You seek comfort in your waking life.
- Some dream plots about kissing reflect good health.
A Few Questions To Ask Yourself If You Dream About Kissing Or Kissing Someone
Kissing dreams carry various contrasting symbols – loyalty, deceit, love, betrayal, to mention a few. Your scenario could fall into any of these categories. So, the first thing you must ask yourself is
- How did you feel in the dream?
- Were you scared that someone would kiss you against your will? Were you relaxed and different? Oe were you excited? Or did you enjoy the experience?
- Who did you kiss or who kiss you?
- Where did you kiss him and her? If you were the one kissed, where on your body did the person in your dream kiss you?
- Note the area where the encounter happened. Was it dark or brightly lit?
- What type of kiss was it – sensual or platonic?
As we mentioned in the article, a dream of kissing is not only limited to love, romance, and relationships. The scenario may even indicate success or failure in some aspects of your life and indicate areas that need to be fixed or transformed.
Therefore, while decoding a dream about kissing, you must be very open to any sort of meaning and not restrict the dream to love and romance alone.
Mayengbam is no dream expert. But she has, since late childhood, been intrigued by dreams. Curious about the mysterious relationship dreams share with reality, she often delves into the meanings of her dreams. Her inquisitive nature led her to develop an interest in tarot readings. She is a full-time freelance writer and a part-time social media marketer. Besides the domains of dreams and spirituality, she also writes for travel, fitness, and marketing.